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- LETTERS, Page 10What's in a Hyphen?
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- When I say I would like to create a hyphenated surname for
- my future children, I often hear the argument that my offspring
- will encounter insurmountable problems if they choose to marry
- someone who also has a hyphenated surname (BEHAVIOR, April 17).
- But I want to change a tradition that is outdated. Our culture
- expects a mother to give her child someone else's surname, while
- her own is lost or relegated to second-class status as a middle
- name. It is time to find a more equitable solution and fix the
- computers so that they can cope.
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- Laurie Mendik New York City
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- I was a so-so student as a college freshman in 1974 when I
- met Eileen Balcom. We were married following our sophomore year,
- and we hyphenated our names. In my junior-year classes, I
- noticed that I was called on more often. I attribute this to my
- having moved up in the alphabet, from V to B. The pressure of
- having to respond more frequently transformed me into an
- above-average student.
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- Michael Balcom-Vetillo Earlville, Ill.
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- As you indicate, one problem that arises is the number of
- misspellings of hyphenated names. This is certainly true in a
- bilingual environment. Our family once received a parcel from
- a leading Montreal store addressed to "Lunch St.-Antoine."
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- John Lynch-Staunton Montreal
-